The first time I tried to collaborate with someone, I cold-messaged a senior marketer. This was before Grow-th Architect existed. Before I had a single newsletter to show, basically before I had anything that told a stranger I was worth a video call.

As you would expect, it went nowhere. I had asked for the reward of a relationship without making effort into building the relationship.

I understood that collaboration is a key mechanism to grow. Just the simple act of tagging someone in a post can be a ‘growth hack’ (ooh how I detest that word.) 

You tag someone in a post. They see it. They probably like it (especially if you're not a jerk about it). Maybe they repost. Your impressions go up. Tag, hope, refresh.

I have the data to back it: When I compare the same kind of post with a few relevant parties tagged against a post without tags, I see roughly a 20% lift in impressions and engagement. 

To top it all up, 5 of my 16 top-rated posts in the last three months had another party tagged in them. Nearly a third of my best work had someone else in featured in it.

So is collaboration your biggest asset to grow your brand? 100% but…

It is not ‘a hack.’ A hack is fast and a hack is repeatable and a hack does not require you to be a decent, patient, discerning person for six months before it pays out. This requires all of that.

The biggest caveat when growing a personal brand is using collaboration strategically. You cannot run this formula ‘cold.’ What I mean by that is cold messages requesting people to react or tagging someone you don’t know rarely works. The most effective way to grow via collaboration is by showing up! For weeks and months! It also helps to comment like a human (kinda rare these days), and you must build the relationship first so that the repost (when it comes) is a dividend and not a favor you pried loose.

Another key part of strategic collaborations is saying NO to most collaboration opportunities. It is tempting to collaborate with anyone and everyone, because the reach mathematics looks fabulous on paper. However, a crucial aspect of your personal brand is fiercely protecting it. In order to do that, you must collaborate only with people who fit. Every serious creator I respect does this.

Look closely at the creators who read as singular voices, and the singular voice dissolves. Sophie Miller. Marie Martens. What they have built is a community of loyalists who celebrate them and get celebrated back, and a lot of what looks like personal brand is really that community, inspired into action, sending exposure and credit back upstream to the name on the door.

Nothing in this world is solo. Influencers need brands. Brands need influencers. It is the same mechanism that makes employee-generated content work: Encourage your people to build their own brands, and their visibility quietly becomes yours. Your personal brand was never purely yours. It would be a little delulu to think otherwise.

Collaboration is both an asset and a discipline you need to cultivate. Most people shy away from collaboration because of the awkwardness of asking others to help. The fear of rejection scares them off. 

There is no dashboard cell for a relationship you haven't cashed in yet, and no way to audit the goodwill sitting in rooms. Even though I call collaboration a foolproof way to grow, what I actually mean is that I have decided to keep betting on people, and relationships. The repost is the reward at the end. I am glad to have it. I am just not pretending it arrived without the months.

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